When you first got together, you were happy with each other. What happened?  Somehow you slowly started to drift apart and now your thinking divorce.

In reality you both made mistakes, over reacted and the spiral downhill begin.

Possibly the biggest mistake is the desire to "help" or "save" the other person from an addiction of some sort.  When your partner doesn't change "for love" then many unpleasant realtionship things can happen.

The second biggest mistake often happens when you no longer feel loved and you start to search for love in all the wrong places. This usually leads to infidelity on the part of one or both partners.

"New therapy model for your ailing marriage or relationship helps you restart your marriage without baggage"

You need someone that understands your situation but more so, someone that can help you to act and react in the best interest of yourself and your family. This doesn't mean staying in the marriage nor does it mean divorce. It simply means you must be in a mental state that will allow you to make the best choice. 

To make those choices you must resolve the extreme grief, get past regrets and wishful thinking, resolve some distructive addictions, and let go of the anger at your spouse. A tall order, but doable.

We must talk soon to find out if your marriage can be happily saved.